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2009.03.19

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volfan007

Amen, Chris. Excellent post. Great insights. And, you just plain ole hit the ole nail on top of it's shiny, little head.

Thanks.

David

Benji Ramsaur

Some thoughts:

1. It does seem like if someone wants to take Eph. 5:21 as proof that "both" the husband and wife should submit to one another, then the imagery of Christ and the church should mirror that mutual submission. But it does not.

2. If someone wants to take Eph. 5:21 as proof that "all" the members of the church should submit to one another, then that would have to include parents "in Christ" submitting to their children "in Christ" as well. Their logic breaks down I think.

3. I think bringing in the extra biblical language of "roles" might bring in unnecessary confusion/disagreement. I think sticking to saying something like "God's will" would be better.

4. Chris said "Filtering plain passages like 1 Timothy 2 and Ephesians 5 through human grids of logic, reason, culture and feelings has resulted in a whole movement of people telling God what he meant to say." This comes across to me like Chris thinks people should come to plain texts with a blank slate, but we all bring presuppositions [God exists, sin is bad, etc.] whether we are looking at Scripture or bones. Hopefully, we all strive to bring presuppositions that are derived from Scripture itself. Also, there is no getting around having to deal not only with what a passage says but what it means.

5. I think Philippians 2 is talking about Christ not holding onto His "heavenly glory" with the Father, but letting go of that in profound humiliation with the ultimate humiliation being His death on the cross in obedience to the Father.

I do not think Christ was grasping after something He did not already have in glory. I think Christ did not hold on to what He already had in glory. Big difference I think.

Benji Ramsaur

It seems to me that the way we articulate things can get in the way of having profitable discussion in this area.

I am particularly thinking of this. Since the Greek word in relation to the wife submitting to the husband [even though the word itself is not found in verse 22, but in verse 21] is not as strong as the Greek word for children obeying their parents, then I wonder if talking in the language of a husband having "authority" over his wife is not the best way to capture the biblical meaning of the passage.

I think the imagery of a formal dance gets at what is being said: the man leads and the woman voluntarily follows his lead. I don't think we look at the prince dancing with Cinderella and think "he has AUTHORITY over her".

I wonder if "headship" in that context [Eph. 5] should not be given too edgy a meaning.

Yes, I know Christ does have absolute authority over His church. However, the HCSB also tells us that we are slaves of Christ as well. Surely we do not want to give that much edge to headship in a Christian marriage.

Chris

Vol- Thanks

Benji- Thanks for your thoughts let me address if I am a few,

1. It does seem like if someone wants to take Eph. 5:21 as proof that "both" the husband and wife should submit to one another, then the imagery of Christ and the church should mirror that mutual submission. But it does not.

The problem as I see it, Benji, is that the text makes the analogy connect not I. “If” one makes the argument A then it must rightly apply to B since Paul uses A is like B in the text.

I think we are close on #2-3 so kudos. As for point 4 of your thoughts, I simply ask, Do you not think it is important, yea imperative, to attempt with all our might to lay aside our presuppositions? I mean, If we are to take every thought obedient to Christ, it begs the question, Which Christ? The Christ as revealed in scripture in that time and space, or the Christ I make him to be as I choose to understand him in my contemporary time and space. Rightfully you acknowledge it is virtually impossible to come with a blank slate, but I think we must try.

My point on the whole of #5 is missed, I think. The point I was attempting to make is that if we pattern our lives as little Christ (Christian), Then a test of our behavior is how we model the willing humility in the Philippians text. Perhaps you nuanced it well however with your “big difference” statement, namely Christ choose to surrender, and we must model likewise. It is not an issue of value, rather obedience.

Thanks for you thoughts and I hope you enjoyed the read.
Chris

Chris

Benji- I think you are circling the point I'm making. If egalitarian is true, then where is the willingnes to surrender the "rights"? What I see too often is a willingness to exert or enforce the "right". I realize much is reactionary against abuse of the whole "authority" issue. But is it not equally, if perhaps only subtle and manipulative at times, wrong to exhert force to rule for the woman? Does this working to get my right attitude expressed in action contradict the humility of Christ?

Chris Poe

Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood and several other pertinent books are available online here: http://www.cbmw.org/Online-Books

Benji Ramsaur

Chris,

I don't think I was disagreeing with you on my #1.

If we are slaves of Christ, then we absolutely must not try to rid ourselves of presuppositions. There is no such thing as neutrality or having a blank slate. We are either committed to Christ or we are not. We must strive to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ [which shows a presuppositional commitment to Christ and not to supposed neutrality].

Presuppositions are not necessarily bad. They are there in our minds whether we like it nor not. When we read the Bible, it is not wrong [in fact it is right] to bring the presuppositions of creation/fall/redemption/consummation [for example] to the text since they derive from Scripture in the first place.

When it comes to rights, egalitarians might throw your argument back at you. They might say "Well, aren't you asserting your right, as a man, to have authority with your complementarian argument".

Of course, you might come back and say "Well, I'm appealing to the Bible" and then they might come back and say "Well, we're appealing to the Bible as well" and thus I'm not sure if going down that road would be profitable.

When it comes to the tranquil discussion of gender [cough, cough, cough...:)] I am not a fan of either side charging the other side of giving into pragmatism/culture a lot. I think it is better to go to Scripture and talk about things like hermeneutics/context/etc.

I also think it is important for both sides to see the other side as brothers and sister in Christ. They should not see each other as the enemy. Better to be wrong on this issue than right and horribly self-righteous about it I think.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your sincere commitment to model the humility of Christ.

God Bless,

Benji

Chris

Benji,
Thanks for the exchange. I would agree fully on the presuppostions as you state that derive from scripture- creation...I would also say that there are times, too often for us all, that perhaps we desire to impose a presupposition on the text. At this point I strongly feel we must resist and let the whole council of God speak to us.
Chris

Luke

Ahh come on Benji. What is wrong with being Paulesque when speaking with someone about how they have ventured from the obvious truth?! :)

Chris,
Perhaps the reason why it is easier to adopt the egalitarian interpretation because then it means that as men, we don't have to love our wives as Christ loved the church and we then would not have to give so much. Your point is spot on that if we remove the head, the body's dead. And if we attach another head, then we open the door for another Savior. But the main trouble is that it is much easier to just let things go by day to day than it is to love my wife as Christ loves the church and NOT because of her, but because of me. The old flesh just doesn't like to die. Thanks for the Word.

Hiram Smith

Chris,

Your analysis and assessment is excellent. I’ve never read a clearer or more powerful brief treatment of this subject. Regrettably, this issue is becoming a more common and more serious problem within churches. If Baptists back away from this indisputably clear biblical admonition, where will we end up?

The issue confronting us is whether we hold fast to the reality of God’s authoritative revelation, or resort to the insufficiency of culturally referenced reason. Thank you for your timely, insightful and inspiring post.

Hiram Smith
Psa.23:1

Chris

Luke- thanks your words

Hiram - thank you too. Are you still in P'cola? I have family there.

Hiram Smith

Chris,

Yes. Beautiful weather today. Come on down. Where are you? Who are your folks?

Hiram
Psa.23:1

Chris

Hiram- shoot me an email and we can chat offline.

E.H. Johnson

So, since I Timothy 2 was brought up, I'm assuming that you affirm that women shouldn't wear gold or pearls, and shouldn't braid their hair?

Chris

I cut mine and my families hair, My wife's also. We buy most of our clothes at consigment, yard sales, and second hand stores. We model this before the saints. We attempt in all things to draw attention to Christ and not self. Perhaps that answers your question. I also lean and learn to lft up my hands in prayer, cleaned, faith-filled and without wrath.

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